While I've had many of the factors of struggle that led me to where I am (one child, later in life), at the same time I've made an educated & thoughtful decision completely in line with what's being said with the Fair Start program ... that has led me to a life of parenthood I feel proud to celebrate. I hadn't exactly felt compelled to …
While I've had many of the factors of struggle that led me to where I am (one child, later in life), at the same time I've made an educated & thoughtful decision completely in line with what's being said with the Fair Start program ... that has led me to a life of parenthood I feel proud to celebrate. I hadn't exactly felt compelled to create a genetic legacy, but the beauty & magic of gestation was calling me: I wanted in on that stage of nurturing my child. Once upon a time I imagined 2-3 kids, but I find the devotion and focus on one precious child is my best gift to her. Add to that all the impacts on the planet and finances -- as well as safeguarding my own time & energy resources to model a meaningful life in community -- and I couldn't be happier with my choice.
That's beautiful, Lauren. Thanks so much for sharing this. I'm hoping I can say the same thing about my choice. Granted, that choice may be taken from me over the next few years, as (a) it's hard to adopt as a felon; and (b) it's hard to have biological children when you're in prison.
But regardless I'm happy that people like you are having kids. :)
While I've had many of the factors of struggle that led me to where I am (one child, later in life), at the same time I've made an educated & thoughtful decision completely in line with what's being said with the Fair Start program ... that has led me to a life of parenthood I feel proud to celebrate. I hadn't exactly felt compelled to create a genetic legacy, but the beauty & magic of gestation was calling me: I wanted in on that stage of nurturing my child. Once upon a time I imagined 2-3 kids, but I find the devotion and focus on one precious child is my best gift to her. Add to that all the impacts on the planet and finances -- as well as safeguarding my own time & energy resources to model a meaningful life in community -- and I couldn't be happier with my choice.
That's beautiful, Lauren. Thanks so much for sharing this. I'm hoping I can say the same thing about my choice. Granted, that choice may be taken from me over the next few years, as (a) it's hard to adopt as a felon; and (b) it's hard to have biological children when you're in prison.
But regardless I'm happy that people like you are having kids. :)