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Holly's avatar

Controversy and extreme actions attract the attention of the media, which is the whole point.  If you play nice, no one notices or cares. You have to give people something to talk about even if it's with disgust that someone would actually do that. I think it's like advertising. If someone comments about how stupid that commercial was, it's considered a win for advertising because it's being talked about, albeit unfavorably. 

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Auri Nurmio's avatar

Doing unpopular things proves your commitment and your strength of character. These are perceptions that influence culture, at first subterraneanly, with a sort of begrudging admiration even from those who disagree; then more overtly, when the resilience of those who first exposed themselves to danger or ostracism is seen as foundational to change. Two random examples came to my mind - but there's countless of them: the first Christian martyrs were roundly despised as eccentric and heretics, but the mode of their death proved excellent PR to the budding institution of the Church, and enforced its credibility. Less dramatically, I remember reading Greta Thunberg about the way she looked forward to a more effective tactic than the everyday marches and school projects about the environment her peers were joining. These later activities were zero-cost and incurred in praise; what she choose to do - public sit-ins on school days - was much more effective to her cause because it was defiant, and her willing to shoulder the costs (the missed school hours and general commitment) proved her cause to be mightier than the social penalties she could expect. I'm not saying to get killed - or skip school, even - but look for the hard, unpopular thing that makes sense in your context, and have the courage to do it.

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